The BIG Decision: Moving OUT, Moving IN
6 years married. 5 years physically distant. 0 offspring. Our shadows... circa 2010 These three conditions have driven me crazy to make the biggest decision in my life (ever): MOVING OUT FROM MY OLD LIFE and MOVING IN WITH MY HUSBAND INTO A NEW LIFE. If most people consider getting married as being one of the biggest decisions they have made or to make in their entire life, count me out. I was at a nubile age when plans and ultimate decision to get hooked was lifted. I could remember, I was almost 90% ready before agreeing to marriage. The expectations that were crawling in my head were met and I wanted everything to get done swiftly. The marriage preparations, the rituals and the merrymaking eventuated as smoothly and hastily as I anticipated it to be. And from that day onwards, I became a wife. Arriving at THE decision to MOVE OUT and MOVE IN was one bold move, one gigantic leap, one courageous act. MOVE OUT, from where? I was...